The Holidays are supposed to be fun.
But more often than not, Christmas can be a source of anxiety and conflicts for single and divorced parents.
Since your children will probably have other holiday events to attend, plan in advance. Discuss those visits with your former partner well ahead of the holiday season.
While you're on the phone...try to agree on cost and the gifts with your ex. Don't attempt to outdo him or her with expensive toys or presents. If your ex doesn't hold up his or her side of the bargain, don't place your children in the middle of the argument.
Experts say too many folks focus on the decorations or the gifts that come with the season...and not the time with family and friends.
This year simplify. Downsize on the extras and include your children in planning the party, decorations or menu, making the holidays less materialistic.
When your children leave to be with their other parent for the holidays, don't send them out the door without a smile. Psychologists say you must not make your children feel guilty about leaving. Encourage them to have fun and that you're looking forward to their return.
While they're gone plan to celebrate with friends and with other single parents so both you and your children have a happy holiday.
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